Roman Rimer and the bus that got him there
We all know the feeling of sitting down on the J Church or the 38 Geary after an especially hard day and wishing we could just disappear into that red seat, alone with our misery, not smushed between 30 strangers. Other times, public transit surrounds us with our fellow riders when we need them the most.
At our Wayfinding Show in April 2025, writer and performer Roman Rimer shared a moving reflection on the realities of navigating life as a trans man in the Bay Area. Roman has watched the city change, made connections and lost them, and grieved more than his fair share—often on the bus. But one thing hasn’t changed: Muni always picks him up when he needs it.
Listen to Roman’s story here:
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Photo by Connor Cimowsky.
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There’s something so intimate and human about the way public transit intersects with our lives, especially when it becomes a space for reflection, connection, or even just quiet survival. It’s incredible to hear how Muni has been a constant in your journey, both in the ordinary and the difficult moments. Storiesslope rider like this really remind me that buses aren’t just transportation—they’re part of our lives.
Roman’s story really resonated with me. It’s amazing how public transport can be a backdrop to so many personal journeys. I’ve had similar moments of solitude and connection on the bus, thinking about life’s ups and downs. It’s almost like a real-life version of chasing highs and lows, like when you are playing Snow Rider 3D, but the stakes are higher, obviously! Thanks for sharing such a thoughtful piece.
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